Its nothing new right ..a lot of things happens that way.
How do we decide if its a thing to ignore or something more serious that we need to act upon it? .
There are two ways in which a Human Being responds in such situations-
Either Whine about it on a regular basis in their head, constant whining to someone closer ,their Confidante .
Or Wine around i.e. run behind other things which temporarily keeps them away from thinking about it. This wine-ing may differ from person to person. It is based upon their level of enduring pain and methods of alleviating it.
Now, the decision whether to ignore or respond(wine or whine) must be taken very very thoughtfully.
For instance, What should a girl/woman do if she is 'normally' mocked or disrespected by other family members or siblings just for fun?? Why do they make fun of her? Is it okay to take it lightly? Why only she is targeted and no one else?
Maybe ,she is dumb/timid/powerless?
What would you do ,if you were that girl??
If the girl is conscious about it ,she would definitely feel bad about it. So, she reacts and responds in every way to make it clear that she doesn't like this attitude/behavior. Still, if no one changes and its a regular scene ,she would Whine and fight and cry and what not..
There is no way this scene can be ignored.
If we keep emotions and empathy away, we may say that In HISTORY, its always been like this. Weak is suppressed by the Strong.
Does being Weak justifies the treachery of Strong?
So, the girl should strive to be stronger and powerful.
Fine!! What if she would never be able to be stronger than them. Then what??
Then, She should keep all courage to completely get detached from such sick minds who lacks empathy and kindness and are just driven by ego and pleasure of all sorts(which includes making fun of other life).
She may suffer the decision here and there ,but this suffering would be far less than the suffering of disrespect and cold-hearted treatment that she underwent.
We Human beings need to understand this very clearly.
Love and respect has to be unconditional, ALWAYS.
Put yourself in her shoes(i.e. Empathize ), you'll see clearly What I am talking about..
That's just been one scene .
so Guess what??? we have reached our asli jawaab.
In matters of self respect, Honesty, Dominance, Opportunity, Discrimination etc. etc. ,
one should NEVER IGNORE the Scene.
We should ALWAYS ACT upon it by all means.
Never ,just never self harm in any way. This is so so important in every dimension(physical and spiritual).
At the very least, one should either fight or run away as soon as we can( I'm not kidding!)
Wine or Whine is an ephemeral take. It is just shallow outlook towards the deepest of problems of Life.
Choose nothing out of them.
Either Fight or Flight my friend!!!!!!
or maybe just Write about it (iykyk) :P